Request = meminta/memohon..permintaan/permohonan.. if we want someone to do something for us . Example : Can you make a cup of tea for me?
offering = menawarkan . if we want to offer something to someone . Example :
i have some more. wanna some?
REQUEST = Meminta sesuatu/pertolongan orang lain. Contoh : -Can You help me?
-May I Have ...?

OFFERING = Memberi sesuatu/pertolongan kepada orang lain. Contoh : -Do you want some candy?